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You know how you meet someone and you feel this cosmic spark as if you are seeing a twin in the mirror?

Your intuition tells you THIS PERSON is right for you, but you do not get the same response from the other person -- at the same time. However, when you meet this person again at a later time, then they may feel you are right for them, but by then you have already moved on.

Some people find their other halves at the right time, while others meet a TWIN at the wrong time. Timing is everything for beautiful chemistry. And when you see a couple that look totally wrong for each other, what you DON'T see is their chemistry. This is why some people do not understand why someone never went for THEM. Or how could that guy or girl go for her/him, and not YOU? CHEMISTRY. Sometimes, how the other person makes them FEEL is all it takes to win them over YOU...even if you can offer them the world.

We do not have only ONE soulmate. This is a myth. Each person you had around you in a past life, you will perceive as a "soul mate" in this one. You feel a familiarity about them that makes them stand out to you. However, there are a handful of souls of the opposite sex as you (or the same) somewhere out there in the world that were split from the same WHOLE as you. Some people call them TWIN FLAMES. However, I feel this is a myth too. Because a whole can be split into numerous parts, versus just two, the same way we cut an orange into four.

The attraction towards a twin far exceeds how you would feel towards a soul mate. However, the world is so HUGE, the probability of running into a TWIN (from the same whole) is slim. You will drop everything you have to be with a TWIN! The energy between you two will be POWERFUL and you will be drawn to them like electricity. With a soul mate, the relationship will be comfortable and warm, almost like being with a sister or brother. Yet, you won't jump over a bridge to reach them. There is a difference, as there are many different depths and degrees one could experience in love. The extremes you could go through for one love, you may never consider for another and so forth.

So what happens when you know and feel you have met a twin, but they are already in a relationship with a soul mate -- or the wrong person? It is normal for one twin to evolve faster than the other -- since their environments and experiences were different. This is something you cannot control or change. Do know, that just because you have found a twin does not mean you were supposed to be together. Yes, the relationship will be ELECTRIFYING if it happened, but what are you supposed to do if they are already with someone else? Move on. There are more twins split from the same whole. Just because you ran into ONE, does not mean there aren't more.

This post is not to tell you to wait for a twin to come into your life. If it was written in the stars for you to meet one, you will. The best LOVE is the kind of love that makes you feel GOOD and is stable. The chemistry is peaceful and the love you receive is unconditional. A twin's love is ELECTRICAL and could be problematic as it alternates a lot between different currents, depths and frequencies. A soul mate's love is not as deep and extreme but it is "more comfortable". In the end, it is all about if you want super magnetic electrical love or a calm peaceful love. Calm waves or crashing ones? Heavy metal or jazz? Again, it all comes down to CHEMISTRY...and very good TIMING.


1) Love is the sister to Truth, but they differ in two ways. You must go to Truth to find her. She will never come looking for you. However, you are never to go looking for her sister Love. Love will find you in your own divine timing, when you are ready for her. So don't look, she will come. She always does.

2) Love is a flower that should never cease to grow. Nurture it, and it will outlive you. Neglect it, and it will wilt away and die.

3) When caught under the weather of love, always choose the person who loves you unconditionally, and abandon the one who only loves you under favorable conditions.

4) Love is meant to lift you up, not tear you down. It is meant to strengthen you, not weaken you.

5) Every relationship needs two wings to fly. Any bird torn at the wings will never soar the skies. Every relationship needs two wings to fly. Any bird torn at the wings will never soar the skies.

6) Did you know that wherever you find fool's gold, real gold exists somewhere nearby? This also goes for relationships and friendships. Real gold is found in the heart. For every piece of fake gold that you discard, remember that true gold isn't too far.

7) In love, treat your relationship as if you are growing the most beautiful flower. Keep watering it, tend to its roots, give it lots of sunlight, and always make sure the petals are full of color and are never curling. Once you neglect your plant, it will die, as will your relationship.

8) You cannot change someone using fear, degradation, humiliation, or by comparing them to others. It can only be done through love, with love, for love.

9) Some people have the coldest smiles, but have the tenderest hearts. And many have the most tender smiles, but carry the coldest hearts. You cannot judge a man by his smile, but you can judge a man by his heart. The smallest actions reveal the most about a hearts true color, so pay attention to them. Actions are the true words of the heart.

10) There is no truth greater than love and it burns at the heart of all creation.

11) Even heaven would become hell if you were alone in it, or away from a loved one. And even if you were with your loved one, but in hell, eventually you would cry to have you and your loved one together in heaven. So to create your own heaven on earth, make sure you and your loved one are in a place you both love, because what could be heaven for one, could be hell for the other.

12) Love is a chemical reaction, but it cannot be fully understood or defined by science. And though a body cannot exist without a soul, it too cannot be fully understood or defined by science. Love is the most powerful form of energy, but science cannot decipher its elements. Yet the best cure for a sick soul is love, but even the most advanced physician cannot prescribe it as medicine.